Thanks for all the help everyone, I wanted to figure this out without a restore of my system, but I have installed so much different software and I have experienced a few malware, but I have since then cleansed my system and ran a registry fix program, but in the end I have had to restore my computer. I have been needing to do it anyways so I guess it is ok.
On the upside here the restore has officially fixed the problem, I was thinking maybe it was because I recently installed VS2010 C++ Express when my main compiler is VS2008 Pro, but not really sure I know sometimes things can be weird like that, so I just eliminated all possibilities and did a complete system restore. I can tell you Nvidia 3D Vision only slows the game up for about 1 minute than it runs perfectly fine afterwords, if I disable it, there is no 1 minute slow up. Thanks again for all your help I knew something was wrong no matter what it was probably a good idea I did a restore anyways.