Problems linking library

[user123]

I am new to installing libraries, so I got a few problems.
1. I can't get "lib" and "include" folders together, I followed multiple tutorials but each timeI get different results...
2.  I followed this http://www.sfml-dev.org/tutorials/2.1/compile-with-cmake.php
 and  this http://www.sfml-dev.org/tutorials/2.1/start-vc.php, but still the IDE does not recognise SFML syntax, it still displays curly red lines around the code...
Oh, I also followed this tutorial:

 
Here are screenshots
http://i.imgur.com/X73s1AD.png
http://i.imgur.com/mvsgtfe.png

What have I done wrong?
What is the proper way to do it?
I see millions of ways with different outcomes, I cannot find a good explaination anywhere.

[Strelok]

You must build the INSTALL(as admin) project, not delete it for no reason. It should install SFML in something like %PROGRAMFILES%/SFML. After that you can either use CMake in your project to link sfml automatically or manually add the libraries and include folders in your vs project.

[Nexus]

Don't follow arbitrary video tutorials. The official ones describe everything, are checked for errors by many people and up-to-date.